The only things we need in life

• Imagination and dreams are a must do, every single day of your life dream of what you want to become
• Don't spend time on regrets, learn from mistakes and move on.
• Don't compare unless you are gaining knowledge or for purposes of improving yourself 
• Self pity is for the lowest kind of humans
• Be supremely self confident but never arrogant. 
• Nuture healthy relationships and throw away the negative ones.
• Aggressively seek out opportunities as they are the bedrock of your destiny. To seek out the best opportunities one must have sorted out fundamental issues with ones outlook, character, personality and values system.
• Train yourself to be decisive
• Train yourself to seek and explore as much as you can before resorting to ask someone for the solution; it's easy when someone else offers answers but one learns so much so well through their own way of discovery. 
• Don't be quick to judge others, especially if you are judging them based on their external appearance. The true reflection of the human being is hidden under the layers of clothes and skin.
• Exercise restraint and patience, everything is possible for those who wait and think before acting.
• Manifest your goals by continually visualizing them, this is a process similar to planning and we all know that everything that is great was planned to perfection. 
• Learn how to talk to yourself. You are the best guardian of you. It's also the only way to control the ever wavering mind at least until it quietens down with meditation and an awakened conscience.
• The only person you should tell your secrets to is you. 
• Don't take yourself or your life so seriously that you miss out on the fun and bliss life has to offer. In the grand scheme of things you are only a tiny spec in the cosmos and that too only until you lice and breathe life. As soon as you stop breathing it's all over and who is to say when you will stop breathing, so chill out and look at the bigger universal picture:-)